Are You A Good Kisser?

Here Are 21 Ways You Can Improve Kissing!

August 28, 2019

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We know kissing is important when dating, having sex, or being in a relationship. We wanted to give you all some tips to be a better kisser. This is some of the information we found that helps.

1. Keep Your Lips Moisturized: Chapstick is your best friend!

2. Avoid Stinky Foods Before A Kiss: Yes, this is huge. You will be breathing into their mouth.

3. Have Mints On Hand: Breathe mints are your friend, bad breathe isn't that hot.

4. Follow Your Partner’s Lead: if you have some difficulty it is okay to let them take control, or meeting them halfway.

5. Or, If Need Be, Lead The Way: If your partner isn't doing so, go for it, but remember consent is sexy.

6. Remember There’s More To Kissing Than Just Lips: You can get into the neck kissing, shoulder kissing, play-biting. Explore those things that you might like,

7. Educate Yourself About Other Erogenous Zones: Find out parts of your body that feel good when kissed. Some would be earlobes, the neck, shoulder. 

8. Don’t Be Scared, To Be Honest: Make requests for anything relationally. You have your way of doing things so let them know how you like it.

9. Have The Tongue Versus Lips Chat: Everyone is different and like different ways of kissing, so ask if they like more tongue, less tongue, or none.

10. Give Positive Feedback To Each Other: Let your partner know when they are doing something right, and reassure them they can do that again.

11. Get Passionate: give your partner the longing feeling from a kiss. This comes from giving that kiss with strong feeling.

12. Don’t See It As A Necessary Step To Sex:

13. Be In The Moment: Do your best to just be present as much as possible.

14. Don’t Compare Your Partner’s Kissing Techniques To Past Partners: Don't compare your new partner with your next in general. This is a new relationship, not an old one.

15. Don't Be Afraid Of PDA: It is okay to kiss your partner in public, don't be afraid to do so.

16. Kiss With Your Whole Body: Feel passionate about it, it shows to your partner that you want it.

17. Don’t Fear Being The Initiator: Be the first to kiss, and don't be afraid to just go with it.

18. Have Regular Make-out Sessions: Kiss often, kiss as much as possible.

19. Pay Attention To Your Partner: Watch their reaction when you nibble their lip, or if you kiss their neck. Be present with them.

20. Close Your Eyes: it feels weird if they are open, but don't be afraid to test this.

21. Give A Bad Kisser A Second Chance: We know not everyone is great at it, but giving them a second chance is what makes you a great kisser.

For more details on these tips head on over to Bustle here. Let us know your thoughts @Loveline